Most of us love babies, but we usually don’t develop the same degree of body connection that a woman has. We don’t carry a baby in our body and we don’t breast-feed. As a result we never know the spiritual bond that is possible between an adult and an infant. I had occasion to get a tiny glimpse into that experience when my daughter gave birth to my granddaughter. Her labor was long and intense, but we were able to leave the hospital the next morning.
The 20th century was not a good time for the relationship between fathers and their children. As we have felt more disconnected from our work, we feel less passion and purpose in our lives. One of the ways this loss expresses itself is when we feel we have less to offer our children.
We should teach our children since their childhood because at that time, their ability to memorize things is very good. It is common that children easy to imitate something. Something that they see or they hear. Giving good examples will give good result too. On the other hand if they live in bad environment can cause bad effects for them. Although some children can avoid the bad effects, many children cannot. It’s also very important to make our children accustomed in doing sports regularly since doing sport is very good for our health.
I wish they were never born.’ And then I felt evil and rotten and was sure I was going to hell. Then I thought, when they come here for the summer, I am going away. I’ll go stay in a hotel down the block so I don’t have to be here. The minute my stepsons walked in the door, my husband would drop our life together.
Finally after going around and around for hours, they got down to the underlying issue. “I do not love your kids,” she whispered. “I might never love your kids.” It hurt Jake to hear those words from his future wife, but he was able to listen and respond. They were able to discuss how both of them felt differently for the children living under their roof.